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Henry "Hank" Bodendorf

February 10, 1940 - December 3, 2021

Henry “Hank” Bodendorf, age 81 of Winnabow, NC passed away Friday, December 3, 2021, peacefully at home surrounded by his family.

He was born in Baltimore, MD on February 10, 1940, the son of the late Henry and the late Louise (Bronner) Bodendorf.

Henry served his country with honor and distinction in the United States Air Force. After his service, he met and married his wife of 56 years, Betty, and started their family in the Washington, DC area. He started as a computer programmer analyst in Hopewell, VA, eventually, leading him back to his family farm in Bloomingburg, NY. While raising his family in Bloomingburg, he spent over twenty-five years working at the United States Military Academy in West Point, NY.

He was an active member of Our Lady of the Assumption Church as a lector, parish council member, Eucharistic minister, and usher. During his retirement, he enjoyed volunteering as a golf cart driver at the New Hanover Regional Medical Center engaging with patient and visitors transporting them to the hospital.

Hank loved to travel and explore new places and for all of those who knew Hank, would know him as an engaging, fun loving, charming man with a good joke and pleasant demeanor. But Hank’s true legacy was his dedication and love to his family and teaching his children what unconditional love truly means.

Hank is survived by his wife, Betty (Boyd) Bodendorf and his four children, Sherri Rufer (John), Bloomingburg, NY, Cathy DeGraw, High Falls, NY, David Bodendorf (Cheryl), Temecula, CA, Michael Bodendorf (Jennifer), Severn, MD his 10 grandchildren: John, Megan (David), Zachary, Jordan, Noah, Harrison, Alexandra, Sophia, Grant, and Mia and 2 great-grand children: David and Harper.

A rendering of Military Honors will be presented by the United States Air Force Honor Guard in recognition of Hank’s honorable and faithful service to his country. A Funeral Mass to celebrate Hank’s life will be held on Monday, December 20, 2021 at Our Lady of the Assumption Church in Bloomingburg, NY at 11:00 am. There will be an opportunity starting at 10:00 am, prior to the Mass, to pay your respects to Hank and his family.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Alzheimer’s Association and American Cancer Society.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation, 1535 S.41st Street Wilmington, NC 28403. 910.791.9099.

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Visitation Information

Date: Monday, December 20, 2021

Time: 10:00 am - 11:00 am

Visitation Monday, December 20, 2021, From 10 -11am at Our Lady of the Assumption Church in Bloomingburg, NY


Service Information

Date: Monday, December 20, 2021

Time: 11:00 am

A Funeral Mass to celebrate Hank’s life will be held on Monday, December 20, 2021 at Our Lady of the Assumption Church in Bloomingburg, NY at 11:00 am.


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